My small 6 yr ancient wanted to invite her entire class for a b’day party. There will also be the parents and some siblings as well. Being that I’m budget conscious, is it rude or poor etiquette to not hand out party favors? From past experience, it just ends up on the floor or the landfill.
I plot on feeding all 54 guests (27 children/ 27 adults) as well. There will be appetizers, pizza, cake and bottled juices/water/sodas. The venue is at an indoor playnasium, where they charge $7 per child admission.
So, party favors or not?
No, can you remember ANY of the giftbags you used to get at parties?
Place a bowl of candy out for the kids to grab on their way out
or even popcorn!
I’m in favor of no favors.
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no, or at least i wouldnt, people want to be there
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NO! crikey 54 ppl? i dont reckon you’re being rude at all if that many show up and you have to feed them….
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IF YOUR ON A BUDGET ITS NOT RUDE..BUT IF YOUR EXTREMLY WORRIED ABOUT IT I SUGGEST YOU GET LIKE A BAG OF CANDY AND GET LIL BAGGIES FROM THE DOLLAR STORE AND FILL THEM UP AND HAND THEM OUT
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You don’t have to buy party favors, as you are already feeding all of the children in the class and paying the admission fee to the gym.
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I would do light party favors – Go to the dollar store..
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Just get something cheap like a coloring book costing 25 cents or something. These six year olds tend to like getting this attention. Just don’t go overboard on it.
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No, can you remember ANY of the giftbags you used to get at parties?
Place a bowl of candy out for the kids to grab on their way out
or even popcorn!
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Considering it’s at an actual venue and not just a house party, I don’t reckon it’s rude not to have party favors. But, if you’re really torn about it, how about making cupcakes that the kids can take home with them? Or maybe just lollipops?
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54 guests is a lot for a six year ancient. The party will be very expensive, so party favors wont be a excellent thought. They will be too expensive. Kids that age like candy, and although the other parents may not be too thrilled with all the sugar, a bag of candy can never hurt.
have fun!
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It would be a better thought, but don’t push yourself too far, maybe just give them all a candy bar or balloon for the kids.
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well since theres that many people, you don’t need to b/c they probably arent expecting any for a huge party like that.
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It is not rude or inproper to not do party favors. You have taken on alot, and anyone who indicates otherwise from your party guests, i would say they would be the "rude" ones. I hope all goes well for you and yours!
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aren’t you already paying for the party favors??
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It is not rude to not give out party favors, although many of the kids may or may not be expecting them, kids do like to receive a "goodie bag" at parties but it isn’t rude to not give them out.
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Me.
Seven bucks for the whole family to eat and play isn’t really a terrible deal, they are getting the better end of it. So I could know not giving one.
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DO THEM NO FAVORS
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Nah. They’ll have plenty to make them pleased there. Bringing them to your house, then saying Gimme Gifts! (essentially) would be terrible juju.
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No!!
Waaay too much already!!
No wonder we have a "spoiled brat"
society! Budget conscious?? with
54+ guests???
So what is next year for 7?
A bmw?
Geeez!! This is sad and scary!!
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Dearly Dee, your party is more than enough. If you’re worried that some children may question at the end, let the parents know during the party that there won’t be any and let those parents handle their own kids.
Have fun, and you deserve a small pampering after that one!
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No.
Party favors are available everywhere now, so it is really no huge deal.
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no its not rude at all, and i wouldnt do favors especially if u r inviting that many people, most parties only have favors if there are like 12 or less kids and ur right they end up on the floor anyway, and excellent luck w/ the sugar crazed 6 yr olds
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is there any way you can do a pinata? thats what i always do cause i always have large parties and never know exactly how many kids are coming so I just do the pinata and let ‘em fight for the candy
or you could do pin the tail on the donkey w/ a prize for that
or
what about some cheap party bags you could fill them from stuff from the dollar store where you can get pretty cheap party favors like i reckon i saw 10 sunglasses for a dollar there or
maybe a balloon tied to a pencil for each kid
just some thoughts – excellent luck i know parties are stressfull
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Look, I just had a combo party at GameWorks for my 8 and 10 year olds. They just invited a couple of their friends apiece.. I cant afford it either as a single Momma who gets NO CHILD SUPPORT and my X would NOT go in on with me. He is such an ^%&(*) !!! It is all they questioned for!!! They wanted NO GIFTS!!!
Anyhow….I just went to the dollar store and they got a couple small things , but i always keep things on hand anyhow and then they added a bunch of goodies from their Halloween bags, and voila! Their treat bags!
But i say go for whatever you can afford. Its YOUR PARTY and you know what YOU can afford!!! and a playnasium is expensive!! I paid $15.00 a child per card and that was plenty, THEN took em for Pizza at LaRosa’s Plus gettin em a drink which was $20.00 !!! Ridiculous!!! $20.00 for 6 kids!!!
So just follow your intuition, and i say thats alot of guest. youre a very courageous woman!!!
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maybe not rude but i remember always hating the fact there were no goody bags at birthday parties but….maybe one small gift for everyone?? A bag filled with candy is robably a cheap but best bet
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I don’t see why they need party favors when it isn’t really their birthday party. It isn’t required and if someone gives you problems then ignore them or tell them that if they want party bags they can have them at their next party.
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Since you are having a party at an playnasium you certainly do not have to have party favors. The parents appreciate the invite to start with and knowing that it cost per person and you will have food and tokens or whatnot..I don’t reckon the playasium would appreciate a bunch of kids throwing all that crap onto the floor of there business anyway(because you and I both know that’s where it ends up, in on the floor then into the trash) so why throw your money in the trash
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From what I know the party favors are kind of like a thank you for the gift that the person gave to you…..in other words its not about the food or where you are holding the event because you will do that either way ………it is about receiving a gift and saying thank you for that gift……….so I guess as long as you dont expect the participants to bring a gift then favors are not necessary but if you do then I’d say you should run to the nearest dollar store and place some bags together………..it doesn’t have to cost that much, you can do what i do……buy things that come in packages like erasers, pencils etc and spread them out, this way it is more like .10 cents per item rather than a whole buck….kids just like any bag they get and I can guarantee half of the parents expect you to give one even if they dont say it.
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It is not rude to skip the party favors. They will not even miss them with all the fun they are going to have.
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